LONELINESS &
ISOLATION
Many Travellers sometimes feel lonely or isolated, even if surrounded by family and friends. It is normal to feel lonely from time to time. Us Travellers are naturally social people who are very connected to our family and community and it can be very hard to feel lonely.
Feelings of loneliness might be because you feel like you are not connecting with your family and friends in the Traveller community or you feel alone. Research has found that Travellers are more vulnerable to loneliness and isolation than people from other ethnic backgrounds because we experience racism and discrimination.
There are other reasons too, such as living in poor conditions or struggling financially that can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness.
Being bullied at school or work because of being a Traveller
Because someone you love has died and you are grieving and missing them
Not feeling accepted for who you are
Feeling unsure about sexuality – if you are lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender and need support around this
Being worried about your future – finishing school, getting a job or getting married
Conflict – being caught up in conflict with other Travellers
Substance misuse – feeling like you are struggling with drugs or alcohol
Unemployment – feeling stressed because you don’t have a job
Homelessness – feeling worried over where you will live or living away from other Travellers
A relationship problem/breakup
- Anxious
- You might not sleep well
- You might feel sad and weepy
- You might feel like life is very hard and there is not a lot to enjoy right now
- You might feel depressed and drink too much or use drugs to cope
- It is very important to stay connected with family and friends.
- Try to keep busy –volunteer or take on a course. If you feel you are not good at talking to people it might be good to learn skills that will boost your self-confidence. Talk to your local Traveller organisation for ideas about volunteering and courses.
- Remember you are not alone – use services and supports for help.
- Develop a hobby that allows you to interact with others – a music or singing group like a church choir, horse riding (if you have a horse) becoming involved in your local community centre or church or taking up an exercise class or sport.
- Celebrate your Traveller identity through listening to Traveller music or engaging with other Travellers. Have pride in being from this strong community.
- Mind your use of social media – take what you see online with a pinch of salt!
You can always link in with
your local Traveller organisation
or Traveller Primary Health
Care Project.
Your GP
Talk to your GP for more information.
YourMentalHealth.ie
Provides free information on mental health services in your area.
Contact: 1800 111 888 or www.yourmentalhealth.ie
CHILDLINE (for under 18s)
Confidential 24/7 service which offers support to under 18’s.
Contact: 1800 66 66 66
or text 50101 or chat line on www.childline.ie
TRAVELLER COUNSELLING SERVICE
Free counselling service for Travellers over 18.
Contact: 086 308 1476 or [email protected]
EXCHANGE HOUSE
Traveller specific service offering mental health services to Travellers like counselling and therapy.
Contact: 01 872 1094 or
www.exchangehouse.ie